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Mental Strength - When you
feel stressed, for example by a driver who cuts you off in traffic, name the
area of your body that is reacting to that situation. It may be your chest, your pinky finger or your whole body, it doesn’t
matter. What does matter is
identifying the area clearly. Then, try
to allow that sensation to “be there” as you focus your attention on every
detail of it. How big is it? How deep is it? What does the sensation feel like – is it sharp, dull,
tingly, etc? Try to relax and
surrender into the sensation as you observe it, no matter how uncomfortable it
may feel at first. It will
eventually break up, but more importantly, it will teach you how to work with
stress – and grow from it – instead of running from it and reacting in
destructive ways. It takes
practice, but this is a good way to start. Good luck. BACK
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KRS, Dear
Meditation for Blood Pressure, YES,
meditation has proven very effective in lowering
blood pressure. As blood pressure goes down
medication (if you are on it) can be reduced and
often eliminated under doctor's supervision, of
course. And while it takes a bit longer than
swallowing a pill, the benefits go beyond
lowering your blood pressure. Benefits include:
peace of mind, more energy, better sleep,
improved job performance, improved mental and
physical health and much more. You may end up
being grateful that your high blood pressure led
you to meditation! Gifts come in strange
packages. There
are many good guided meditation audios out there.
Libraries carry many audios and can order others
on request. It's a good place to try different
ones until you find the one(s) you like. If you
like, I can send you information on my
meditation audios. BACK
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KRS, During
the sitting, an interesting thing happened.
Being later in the day I had plenty of
uncomfortable physical sensations to work with.
While applying awareness to one such sensation,
it happened that I no longer felt any pain, as
such. I could still feel the sensation but it
was no longer painful. I found this so
interesting that I continued to meditate during
the break and indeed found that I could get to
this point with other uncomfortable sensations.
Am I on the right track or would be better for
me to go in another direction? Thanks again, the
retreat was far and away the best meditation
experience I have
had. Dear
Working With Pain, The
mindfulness technique you were applying -
vipassana - is about being present with body
sensations. By "diving right into the
middle of your pain" with awareness and
allowingness, you broke up your knot of aversion
rooted in the middle of the pain, thus
transforming not only your physical pain but
purifying consciousness as well. BACK
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When I meditate I see swirls of color - usually a lavender color appears and
swirls around. I even see waves of energy moving around. After I see darkness,
outlines of what looks like the silhouettes of people then light and visions.
When I open my eyes and see the room, sometimes I feel very weird. What is
happening?
Meditation Visions
It’s not uncommon for people, especially new meditators, to see images when they
close their eyes. The solution is simple – meditate with your eyes open, looking
down toward the floor. Try that technique for several days or even weeks. Then
gradually try closing your eyes for brief periods, perhaps one minute at a time
or even less. You should gradually acclimate to being able to keep your eyes
closed for longer periods without seeing images. If you continue to see images,
no problem and no cause for alarm. You can meditate (successfully) with your
eyes open while sitting, slow walking or while stretching or doing yoga and get
very nice results.
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How can I increase my
mental strength so that petty, inconsequential things do not have a stressful
effect on me? Can you suggest some
techniques? I am aware that this is
a tough problem and there cannot be one single answer, but there must be ways by
which a person can rise above the trivial things that bother him and thwarts his
progress in life in general.
- Wants
Mental Strength
One of the
most powerful techniques for gaining inner strength is meditation. In fact, that’s why I call my meditation
audios “Inner Master Series” – it’s about conquering your inner world. There are many techniques that I use in this series and in my seminars,
but here is a powerful one that you may find helpful:
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I am a 21-year-old female college student. I have taken a yoga class and am currently taking a stress management class. In both of these classes, on occasion the instructor has invited the class to meditate or otherwise enter a deeper state. No one else but me seems to have a problem engaging in this activity, but as soon as the instructor invites us to close our eyes, I start to cry and feel terrible. I don’t experience any frightening or sad images when I close my eyes, it’s just that a lump forms in my throat and the tears start coming.
Today we had a guest lecture by a hypnosis expert, who demonstrated a simple hypnosis technique on a classmate and then taught us a simple method of self-hypnosis....except for me. While the rest of the class was moving toward relaxation, I found myself inexplicably tense and in tears and I had to leave the room. I was trying to follow her instructions but for some reason they had an effect opposite to the one intended. After class I had to go back to my room and I cried for about an hour, feeling terrible.
Can you give me any advice or insight? I’d really like to someday be able to meditate and relax myself without all this strange emotional pain.
Crying Meditation
Dear Crying Meditation,
Congratulations in your quest toward inner growth and in having the courage to resolve your meditation dilemma rather than pushing it away. Please recognize that this is as important a process for you as learning to relax.
Every obstacle presents itself to us as an opportunity for growth. In facing this you may well be digging deeper than anyone else in the class who is gliding through effortlessly. Here are a few suggestions to help you make use of this wonderful challenge:
1) Ease into it, little by little. If your experience is worse when you close your eyes, keep your eyes open. In fact, at first you might want to actually look around the room a bit and keep yourself partially distracted from the experience, listening to it "in the background" of your mind. Even then, feel free to come and go from the classroom as you like. (You might want to explain your process to the instructor and stay in the back of the class so you don't disrupt the class as you leave).
2) You might want to try other instructors or start with audios so that you can play just a very few minutes of it at a time in the privacy of your own room. (I have guided meditation audios that you can test for free on my site). Again, listen to just a bit at a time. I use a technique called mindfulness that actually works with the discomfort of the emotions. In meditation sensations and feelings arise that have been buried for a long time, so that when they appear they can sometimes just sort of pour out. It can seem a bit strange and even scary because it is so different. But relaxing around the discomfort can be very transformative work and very exciting work.
3) Write about it. Going to a still place can alarm some people because there is something they don't want to "see" or remember, such as abuse. I'm not suggesting this is the case, but merely trying to present you with as much information as possible. You might try writing about your experience and see what comes out of that pen. For example, what emotion is there at that moment when the tears come? Describe (write about) those feelings.
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Can you control blood pressure with
meditation?
Meditation for High Blood Pressure?
I am so heartened that people are taking
increasing responsibility for their own health
and well-being. Congratulations for considering
a non-drug alternative. After all, on the
"surface" it would certainly seem
easier to just pop a pill, right? But we are
slowly learning that easy answers often just
build more layers that we have to unravel and
repair later.
KRS
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I am very interested in meditation. Can
you give me some tips on how to get started?
Thank You.
New
Meditator
Dear
New Meditator,
There are many meditation techniques.
Experiment and find the one(s) that suit your
personality and practice daily, if
possible. A wonderfully effective and
simple meditation:
Choose one of two places to focus:1)the diaphragm
(just above your navel) or 2)just above your lip
(where the air enters and exits your
nose). Then simply follow the movement of
your breath coming and going. Don't try to
control it - let it do its own
thing. Your mind will want to wander
but just keep bringing your attention back to
your focal point. To help maintain your
focus, count your breaths up to 5 and back to 1
(one count includes an inhalation and an
exhalation. For example: Inhale ONE,
exhale ONE. Inhale TWO, exhale TWO,
etc.). It's preferable beginners have
guidance in the form of a teacher or audios (my
series "Inner Master Series" is well
suited to beginners.)
Your meditation practice will be well rewarded
in more ways than one. When your internal
world is balanced you'll find that all aspects
of your external world will run more smoothly.
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At the age of 41 I have recently re-entered the
work world after devoting the last 6 years to my
two children and husband. The job routine is
coming back to me but I still get quite nervous
and find I often talk too and occasionally even
get out of breath, especially in high pressure
situations. Help!
Re-entering the Work Force
Dear
Re-entering the Work Force,
Assuring yourself that you will be back in the
groove very shortly will help dissipate your
stress. In the meantime, you have this wonderful
opportunity to practice a new and very simple
skill that will help quell the stressful waters.
When nervous, we tend to breathe shallowly, in
our upper chests, thus not maximizing oxygen
intake. Interestingly, studies show that when a
group of studies show that when a group of
calm people purposely breathe shallowly for a
short period they soon feel stressed. It is a
vicious cycle. Stress induces shallow breathing;
shallow breathing induces more stress and so on.
You can restore an even, stress reducing
breathing pattern
with
The
Complete Breath.
The Complete Breath
The Complete Breath is a great on-the-spot yoga
exercise that takes only seconds and can be
easily incorporated into your work day. Do it in
your car, in the elevator, at your desk or
during meetings. Once you get in the habit and
feel the results you will become
"hooked" on this wonderful opportunity
to not only relieve stress but to visit
"home base", your true self, and get
centered for the challenges ahead.
1. Exhale completely to the slow count of 8,
like letting all the air out of a balloon.
Contract the diaphragm muscles (just below the
ribcage). "Push In" to get all the air
out.
2. Inhale slowly and deeply to the slow
count of 12, filling your lungs "from
bottom to top," that is from the bottom of
your rib cage area to the upper lobes of your
lungs, which extend almost up to your shoulders.
Keep the neck relaxed and the shoulders lowered.
HOLD this breath for a slow count of 8 or as
long as you can. (Your lungs need to stretch
just like your muscles do!)
3. Exhale slowly and evenly to the count
of 8, from top to bottom. Now, let a natural
rhythm resume, originating from the diaphragm.
If you like, place your hand over the diaphragm
area and feel the slow expansion and contraction
of this area. Notice how calming it is. Continue
this for as long as you can.
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I
recently attended one of your meditation
retreats. It was my first retreat and I think it
was very productive. I hoped you could
perhaps
comment on what I think was a positive
development in my meditation.
Working With Pain
You did excellent work for your first (or any)
retreat. Most people spend their whole life
running from unpleasantness and pain, never
learning how to change their experience of it,
how to transform it. They divert themselves from
pain with food, relationships, shopping, talking
on the phone and everything else but being with
the pain in a skillful way. Imagine life without
the central theme of constantly seeking pleasure
and avoiding any form of unpleasantness, whether
physical or emotional. Imagine being fully
equipped to handle any form of unpleasantness or
pain. It makes you realize how much needless
time and energy is spent trying to shove
unpleasantness under the carpet.
KRS
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