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Eat or Not to Eat
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all honesty I can't figure out which would be better.
Personally, I don’t get very hungry during an
average day. I eat once maybe twice a day and I can
barely reach 800 calories. So cutting calories seems
to be out. On the other hand, I tried eating very
small snacks through out the day, instead of just one
meal, and I was so full all the time it felt like I
had just left a buffet. And even with this I was still
only averaging about 1000-1500. So they say not to eat
when you’re not hungry, but should I make myself do
it anyway? Dear
Eat or Not to Eat, In
most cases, with rare exception, the body is like a
calculator. It adds up all the calories ingested and
subtracts the amount of calories burned through
movement/exercise and…..the grand total shows up on
your body. That can be cruel news to some and exciting
news to others, i.e. it’s not a mystery as to why
our weight is what it is – it’s simple math. Many
people underestimate how many calories they are
actually ingesting, so I recommend educating yourself
with an old-fashioned calorie book. For 2-4 weeks
measure and write down EVERYthing you eat. I think you
may well find yourself over 800 calories (which, by
the way, is anorexic/starvation level). As
you are getting calorie educated, start listening to
your body: You
get to be the “boss of your eating and your body”
versus following someone else’s list of rules. The
only “rule” is that you must be a kind, honest,
perceptive and responsible guide to yourself. BACK
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KRS, Dear Stubborn Weight, Give your metabolism a little jolt by mixing up your
exercise routine. Also, be sure the
majority of your eating is during the day. Don't be fanatical but do try to go to bed a bit hungry. Then, during the night, your body can burn your "fat of the
land" calories (in this case, on your hips) instead of having the last meal
sit, SET - and turn to fat. Food allergies can also be the cause of stubborn weight. When one client first came to me she was exercising and eating 1000
calories a day or less but wasn't losing weight. She said all she had for dinner was popcorn without butter. Since corn (and wheat) is a very common allergy food, I convinced her to
go without popcorn for a week and increase her calories a bit. She lost two pounds the first week. Eating popcorn every night may have induced an allergy to it
(if she didn't already have one), which can contribute to a sticky weight
problem. BACK
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Dear Searching,
New fad diets appear
every day and they can look quite enticing. One key thing to look for in any eating program is BALANCE. As soon as you see major food groups missing or, worse, only one food on
the list, run for the healthy hills. At
best, you may lose a few (temporary) pounds with these fanatical diets. At worst, you throw your whole system off balance and get sick. An all-fruit diet is not your answer to happiness (or even a thinner
body). ASK KRS
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"SEARCHING"]
Dear KRS,
Thank you for taking the
time to write to me. I see what you
mean about those fad diets. You may
lose some weight, but in reality, you're going to gain it right back. I am now eating healthier and striving for balance. Thanks for your help!
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losing weight in a healthful manner and conquering food obsessions along the
way. Treasure what you've
accomplished and maintain it for awhile before pushing yourself towards new
goals. Your weight is in the ideal
range for a medium framed woman, according to the Metropolitan Life Insurance
Company. Continue with your
healthful lifestyle and, at your young age, you will see more skin toning and
weight loss with time. The older
one gets the less likely it is for the skin to return to its "skinny
self" as it loses elasticity over time. Keep up the good work. KRS BACK
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KRS, Dear Aiming, Please
examine all the factors attached to your concern
about being the right weight. Besides looking
physically different, what else does it mean if
you reach this magical number? What does it mean
if you don't? How have we come to see distorted
images of ourselves when looking in the mirror?
Why can't we trust what we see and what feels
right? What do we give so much credence to a
number on the scale? This is a social issue to
which we are victims, but remember that
individuals collectively create social issues so
it is on an individual level that change must
initiate to reverse this distorted view. Now
that I've gotten all that off my chest, I will
relent to your question, which will actually
further demonstrate my point. The Metropolitan
Life Insurance Company has a height and weight
table that gives a somewhat generous guideline.
For a woman who is 5'5" to 5'6" the
weight range is 117-160 pounds! Granted, that
covers small to large frames, but that is still
a 43 pound range! Which of these 43 pounds is
the "magic number"? Which will deliver
happiness to women of this height? For you,
apparently none of those 43 will do the trick.
You have selected another number which may very
well be the weight that is ideal for you. Just
be sure to tune in more to your inner voice and
feel of your body and less to magical numbers
and external social "shoulds." BACK
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KRS, Dear
Dieter, First,
you need to wean yourself off the pills a little
at a time. Don't worry about the weight right
now, just focus on getting the drug out of your
system, one day at a time. Drink lots of water,
eat balanced meals and EXERCISE! Exercise is the
best thing to move a sluggish metabolism and
restore an efficient fat-burning system. It also
will help your headaches as it releases
endorphins, the body's own natural pain-killers.
Start with walking and slowly increase your pace
so that you work up a sweat. You may be only
able to do 5 minutes the first day. Fine.
Congratulate yourself and gradually add a little
time each day. You will need to bite the bullet
until the toxins are out of your system, but I
promise - there is a quality life waiting on the
other side. BACK
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Dear
KRS,
To eat or not to eat? I am currently over weight,
and trying to find a healthy way of eating that
won’t either starve me, or make me sick. It seems
that everything I read assumes that if you are
overweight it is because you stuff yourself, and
insists that you cut calories, reduce quantity or eat
only when you’re hungry. On the flip side, I read
that you should eat small portions six times a day,
etc.
- To Eat or Not to Eat?
Bottom line: Never eat when you’re not hungry and
adapt a plan that resonates with your body-mind, i.e.
a plan that feels right to you and works for you. It
could be either of those plans you outlined, a
combination of the two or a different option.
KRS
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I'm a really active teenager. I am involved year-round in either soccer, volleyball, basketball, or skiing. The problem
is. I would like to "reduce" the size of my "love handles".
I'm about 5'10", 160 pounds and my waist is about 30", my hips are about 34" and I would like to know if there is an exercise that concentrates on that area of my body. Please help.
Hate My Love Handles
Dear Love Handles,
Good for you for being so active! Healthy exercise you enjoy is so much better than forced exercise you don't enjoy. Unfortunately there is no such thing as spot reducing. However, by lowering your fat intake and perhaps losing a few pounds you will notice a redistribution of your weight - i.e. reduced love handles. It really doesn't take that much - just the awareness of where excess calories come from and a gradual, natural
improving your eating habits. Good luck!
KRS
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I give up. I
eat a fairly balanced diet, very little fat and don't drink, smoke or take
drugs. I workout for over an hour
every day and I STILL can't seem to lose any weight. It can't be genetic, because everyone in my family can lose weight rather
easily. Please give me some advice.
Stubborn Weight
You didn't mention how many pounds overweight you are
(which, by the way, is a different question than how much weight you'd like to
lose). Those who are well over
their recommended weight for their height tend to lose weight faster than those
who are closer to their ideal weight and fitness level. In fact, the "very fit" often complain that the
fitter they become, the harder it is to improve. If you're working out an hour everyday, my guess is that you may be
closer in profile to the latter category.
KRS
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My new job requires me to drive most of the day therefore I am SITTING. I lost 20 pounds over the last year but I had a more active job than I do
now. What can I do to lose 10 pounds when I sit all day? I work out but feel like I have less energy to do the things at the gym
than I did before.
Sitting All Day
Many, if not most, jobs are rather sedentary in the modern era so you are not
alone. The first thing to consider
is that, because you are burning less daily calories with your new job, you need
to reduce your caloric intake. In other words, because you are exerting less calories you
need to ingest fewer calories. Simple
math. The same math applies when
you get sick or injured and can't exert as many calories.
KRS
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I have been going to a fitness center since last
July and participating in low-impact aerobics at
least five times per week. I have lost 25
pounds and many inches. My question
is, I have not lost any weight for about 3
months. What can I do to jump-start my fitness
program and lose about ten pounds?
Ms. Plateau
Dear Ms. Plateau,
This is a very important question.
Plateaus are perhaps the biggest program killers
around because people don't understand
them. They get impatient,
discouraged - and then often throw in the gym
towel and pull out the cookies. So it's critical
that you recognize and "label" your
plateaus and be ready and willing to "ride
them out."
If the plateau is long enough, such as yours,
you can jump-start it by changing your routine a
bit. Alternate your workout to include
other types of exercise, such as swimming, hill
hikes, or equipment like the treadmill. You can
even rotate several exercises in the same
workout, such as three different aerobic
machines. It's called cross-training and
it helps make your workout interesting and can
give a big nudge to a plateau.
But remember, every success story has
plateaus. Learn not to react negatively to
them. They are actually part of your
success, believe it or not. I always tell
my clients that plateaus help "set"
the success they've already established.
The longer the loss is maintained, the longer
and more definitely it is yours.
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I was bulimic for 4 yrs off and on and now when
I try to go on a healthy diet it always leads to
that. Will I ever get better?
Bulimia Revisited
Dear Bulimia Revisited,
Whenever most ANYone goes on a "diet"
a feeling of deprivation usually follows with
rebellion and relapse close behind. What
you think is a "healthy diet" may well
be, but it may also be a bit too dramatic a
change all at once. Start gently and
slowly with one thing at a time. For example,
add one healthful thing to your diet that you
LIKE. Or, select one unhealthful thing
that you feel you are willing to reduce.
Stay very tuned in to yourself and if you start
getting those old familiar negative feelings,
back off a bit. Soon, you will heal the
well-worn path of the old patterns and will
establish new, healthful ones. It's very
exciting when you see the momentum start
shifting from negative patterns to positive ones
and realize that change is possible. Trust the
process.
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I have been trying for three years to lose
weight and I just can't seem to do it! I
try everything but I just can't stick with it. I
tell myself I am going to eat healthy at lunch
and then at lunch I get this craving for a
cookie or something. So I tell myself I am
not fat and eat it. Then I look at myself
after lunch and hate myself for eating that
cookie! This has gone on for 3 years and I
think it is time to get serious! I need help on
getting started!
Cookie Lover
Dear Cookie Lover,
Everybody has this kind of argument with
themselves every day on various
subjects. We all have several
different parts of ourselves (sub-selves) who
have different needs and desires. Inner
dialogues go on regularly with these
"sub-selves" about what we should and
should not do. The problem is that the
louder voice is often the negative one, which
leaves us feeling bad after the conversation is
over. It is important to understand
this premise, so you can more effectively deal
with this and other similar dilemmas.
Have an "out loud" conference between
the sub-self who wants to eat well and the one
who wants the treats. Reach an agreement
that both can live with. For example, perhaps
the cookie lover wouldn't rebel (by always
having a cookie) if she knew that she was
permitted to have them a certain number of days
a week. Be fair with her and she will
learn to trust and respect the decisions of the
"committee." Then you can slowly
but specifically reduce the frequency of the
treats so that she is still happy and you can
lose weight. It's called the middle
path. Non-fanatical and doable. You
might also consider keeping a "cookie"
diary for 30-60 days to track your progress and
keep all sub-selves conscious and honest.
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About three months ago I had a baby, I know it
takes time but I haven't lost anything after the
first month!! I was 184 pounds at delivery and
am now 168. I try watching my diet and
exercising. I didn't have many cravings
when I was pregnant but now that I am breast
feeding I want chocolate, sweets, and anything
that I can put in my mouth. Why?
Just Had a Baby
Dear Just Had a Baby,
Cravings are a typical response of the hormonal
imbalances that are common during pregnancy and
after delivery. Unfortunately, any
positive action you are taking can be easily
foiled by treats. Focus on keeping a
clean, healthful diet with enough protein to
help stabilize your blood sugar levels.
Allow yourself an established limit of the
treats. Consistent exercise and a balanced
diet will help get your system back to
normal. Be patient, the weight will drop
off if you stick with it.
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I'd like to know what kinds of exercises I could
do to get rid of cellulite. I've had it
for years and nothing works. Thanks
Tired of Cellulite
Dear Tired of Cellulite,
Exercise is good for cellulite in that it
circulates your blood and helps break up and
carry away waste, such as cellulite. But
something even more effective is a "knuckle
massage." For just 5 or 10 minutes,
3-7 times a week, massage the cellulite area
while watching TV, for example. It may be
a bit tender at first, but work towards as much
pressure as you can stand, without bruising
yourself. If the cellulite is in your
thighs, use the knuckles of both hands, starting
just above your knee and rub upward (toward your
body) vigorously. Massaging one leg at a
time, continue for several minutes. Your
thigh may turn pink or itch a bit from the
increased circulation. When you're
finished, elevate your legs for a few minutes
(optional). Also drink 6-8 glasses
of pure water (not sodas or tea) each day.
Most people get noticeable results in a week or
two.
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I am an 18 year old girl who needs to lose some
weight on my stomach by summer! How do I
achieve this goal? Right now I do 100
sit-ups a night and 50 in the morning. What else
should I do? I hate doing different exercises
for each muscle in my stomach. I'd
rather just do one kind. What do you
suggest for eating habits? I need a routine very
badly! Can you help? Thank you for your
time and I would appreciate a response.
Sincerely,
Losing Weight for Summer
Dear
Losing Weight for Summer,
You didn't mention how many pounds overweight
you are, if any. If you have significant
excess weight, all the situps in the world won't
deliver a flat, hard stomach. I tell
my clients the first mission is to lose the
excess weight and then we'll worry about the
"stomach problem" after that.
(Not surprisingly, the "stomach
problems" usually disappear with the excess
weight.)
I suggest a doable, non-fanatical weight loss
program that focuses on a gradual reduction of
fatty foods while introducing good tasting
healthful ones.
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I have a house full of food and no
willpower. My kids and husband insist I
have the kitchen stocked with their favorite
snacks and "junk food." The
problem is, at the end of a long day, I also end
up eating it. And, too late, I'm
repentant.
No Willpower
Dear No Willpower,
I hear this
I-must-keep-my-family-stocked-up-on-junk-food
"logic" all the time. First of all,
the most caring thing you can do for your family
is remove the toxins from your house.
Let's face it, many foods (and accompanying
additives) are nothing but slow killing poisons
dressed in nice pink tutus. Internal
storms can be brewing of which you are not
aware. And children are more hyperactive
and overweight with higher cholesterol levels
than ever before. This doesn't mean they
must eat carrot sticks and lettuce (nor must
you), but shop around. There are excellent low
fat snacks, including cookies, that are quite
good.
So let's assume you manage to detoxify your
kitchen to some degree. Mainlining those
low fat cookies is next, right? What do
you do? Allow yourself a pre-determined
amount. Eat slowly, guilt free and
consciously (not while you're opening your mail)
and then put them back in their special out of
sight spot that the entire family knows about
and complies with (or no cookies!). Their
protests about no junk food? Tell them
they get plenty of that outside the house
without even trying. Tough love.
I've been fighting "the last seven
pounds" for the past ten years. I do pretty
well until late afternoon when the snacks in the
office begin calling out loudly. Could a half a
doughnut really do that much damage?
The Last Seven Pounds
Dear
The Last Seven Pounds,
In fact, half a doughnut five days a week can
add up to about one pound of excess calories per
month, not to mention the fat. That's 12 pounds
a year. At the rate you're lucky your battle is
only a 7 pound one.
The solution need not require total deprivation.
Since you know you get hungry late in the day,
don't fall victim to the "I had to eat
something!" rationalization of the masses.
Figure out a new plan that is fair to the
doughnut lover inside you. If you know are
unable to stop cold turkey, cut down but be
specific. Half a doughnut 4 times the first
week, 3 times the next week, down to once a
week. For non-doughnut days, assume the
responsibility to have healthful snacks on
hand you like and that will stay fresh, such as
apples. Shop wisely and experiment. The plan, of
course, is to bring your taste buds back to
enjoying natural healthful foods. (Babies who
have eaten only natural foods for the first
time. The point is that we've acquired our taste
for bad foods and we can "un-acquire"
it as well.)
Also, check in with your self-saboteur. Ask
yourself if you are hanging on to that last 7
pounds for a reason (fear of sexual intimacy,
low self-esteem, etc.) give yourself permission
to let go of the weight and accompanying
baggage. You deserve it and, if you're willing
to stay with it, you can do it!
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By the time I get home from my long work day, I
am starving! All plans to prepare the perfect
low-fat salad and eat like a lady go out the
window. Willpower must be hiding out in the
(unopened) vegetable bin. At the time I tell
myself I deserve anything I want. How can I tame
the wild beast inside me (hunger)?
Starving After Work
Dear
Starving After Work,
Getting home late and hungry is a bad
combination. Unfortunately, it is a very common
problem, especially in business with long hours.
What I tell my clients at Universal Studios is
to make a point of eating something relatively
harmless late in the afternoon so they won't be
ravenous by the time they get home. Often it can
something you save after lunch, since
restaurants usually over serve. This tip is as
simple as it is effective. The most difficult
part? Remembering to keep things on hand. Be
diligent about this for one week and notice the
change in your evening habits and your weight.
You'll become a convert.
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I give up! I eat a fairly balanced diet, very
little fat. I don't drink, smoke or take
drugs. I workout for over an hour everyday and I
STILL can't seem to lose any weight. It can't be
genetic, because everyone in my family can lose
weight rather easily. I am losing all hope. Can
you please give me some advice?
Can't Seem to Lose Weight
Dear
Can't Seem to Lose Weight,
Don't give up! You didn't mention how many
pounds overweight you are. Those who are over
the recommended weight for their height and
definitely overweight, tend to lose weight
faster in the beginning than someone who is
closer to their ideal weight and fitness
level. The "very fit," however,
often complain that the fitter they become, the
harder it is to improve. If you're working out
an hour everyday, my guess is that you may be
closer in profile to the later category and
might need to just hang in there and be
patient. Many people give up when visible
results are just around the bend. Changes
are always happening inside, but can show up
"all of a sudden" with a two or three
pound loss. Try to forget about the mirror
and scale for awhile and focus on enjoying your
workout and food. Also, change your exercise
routine occasionally to give that metabolism a
little extra "jolt."
Be sure the majority of your eating is during
the day and think of night eating as
"counting double." Don't be
fanatical but do try to go to bed a bit
hungry. Then, during the night, your body
can burn the "fat of the land"
calories instead of having the last meal sit,
SET - and turn to fat.
Food allergies can be the cause of stubborn
weight. When one client first came to me
she was exercising and eating 1000 calories a
day or less but wasn't losing
weight. She said all she had at
night was popcorn without butter. Since
corn (and wheat) is a very common allergy food,
I convinced her to go without popcorn for a week
and increase her calories a bit. She lost
two pounds the first week. My guess is
that by eating popcorn every night she actually
developed an allergy to it (if she didn't
already have one), which caused the sticky
weight problem.
Write back to share your success story - I know
you'll have one!
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If you are trying to lose weight, is it best to
eat more lean meat and protein or a low fat
carbohydrates? Also, is it best to exercise at a
moderate pace for a longer period for a longer
period of time or at a faster pace for a shorter
period of time if you're trying to lose weight?
Protein or Carbs?
Dear Protein or Carbs,
You've got the two basic factors of weight loss
right: 1) Food intake 2)
Exercise. It's unfortunate that so many
"magical solution" diet books are
still being published extolling an unbalanced or
fanatical approach.
Intelligent (but desperate) people buy them
thinking, if it's in print it must
be legitimate. The answer is simple and
not particularly "best seller"
material: "EXERCISE AND EAT LESS OF A
BALANCED DIET." Less fat, less
calories, less FOOD. There aren't any
shorter routes that work long term. I
hesitate suggesting people live by percentages
but, to give you a rough idea, a
healthy diet contains about 10%-20% fat, 15%
protein and 70% carbohydrates. But
don't obsess about those numbers. Balance
it out and listen to your body--it's pretty
wise, once the head is out of the way.
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If I start eating less tomorrow, how long
before results would be shown?
Eating Less
Dear Eating Less,
It seems like you're standing at the edge of an
ice cold swimming pool wondering how short a
time you can stay in the pool and still get
credit for exercising (or eating less, in your
case). Patience. I suggest people
focus more on cutting back in a way you can live
with and less on what the scale says. If
you learn to enjoy cleaning up your diet, the
weight problem is eventually history. The
"race" may be more like the tortoise
than the hare, but it will last. Think
about one thing you can modify per month, such
as leaving the butter off your toast in the
morning (or using half as much). Having
said all that - weight usually starts coming off
the first week but may take a month or six weeks
to feel your clothes get looser.
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I have lost 40 lbs and it took me three
years. The problem is that I'm still about
60 pounds overweight. I work out 5-6 times
per week but have a problem with
chocolate. I eat great for 3 weeks but the
week before my period I go out of control.
My weight hasn't changed since X-mas, but my
shape has changed a lot. Can you help me?
Chocolate Addict
Dear Chocolate Addict,
First of all, revel in your 60 pound loss - good
work! Don't let the vision of your goal
blur your successes of today. What I often
say to private clients is "If this is ALL
you ever lose, be appreciative, or your
discouraged mind will sabotage your efforts and
you could gain it all back
again."
Next, let's address the monthly bingeing. It's
unfortunate but true that one binge can
sometimes wipe out a whole week's weight loss
efforts, so it's worth getting this issue
figured out. Remember that phrase,
"The devil made me do it"? My
modern day version of that is "My hormones
made me do it." So let's balance
those hormones. I suggest a good women's
formula supplement, such as us
"Cycl-o-vites" by Nature's Plus.
Try taking it for a month or two, then cut back
to taking it 10 days before your period for
several months. Often you can reduce it
less and less and finally stop taking it. If
this particular formula doesn't work for you,
there are several other ones out there for you
to try. They can help balance your system,
eliminating the symptoms of PMS.
Finally, it is said that women burn about 150
extra calories per day during their period, so
don't worry about satisfying a craving in a
moderate way. Just don't think that since
you've had one chocolate cookie that all is lost
and you might as well finish off the whole
bag. There is a big difference between one
cookie and 24. Let me know how it goes.
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I weigh 400 lbs and I am going through a
lifestyle change - eating healthier and
exercising. Please tell me how much weight is
safe to lose per week. I also take a metabolism
enhancer. Are these safe
and should I continue to take them? Thank you in
advance.
400 Pounds and Losing
Dear Losing,
I am so happy to hear you use the term
"lifestyle change" rather than
"crash diet." You WILL get where
you want to go with that approach.
The key is to ENJOY THE PROCESS - enjoy what you
eat, enjoy your exercise, enjoy life. If
you enjoy these things, why would you ever
stop? You also become less impatient about
results, because you are not "holding your
breath" until your goal is achieved.
I say this in response to your concerns of
weekly weight loss. I understand how
important it is for you to lose the weight, but
be careful you don't turn the scale into a
god. Instead of focusing on the scale,
focus on ways to keep your lifestyle program
interesting.
Generally, the more weight you have to lose, the
faster you will lose it - which is good new for
you. Don't get started on "metabolism
enhancers" and other miracle fads.
You want to stabilize and heal your system, not
get it hooked on external substances that
artificially alter it. With exercise as
your new "metabolic enhancer," your
weight will come off naturally and safely.
Check in with yourself each day to see if the
"inner you" has any complaints.
Make any alterations in your program
accordingly.
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I am aiming for 105 pounds and am 5'5
1/2". I have not been able to reach that
yet. I am currently 115 pounds. Is this a
realistic goal that can be safely
accomplishable?
Aiming For 105 Pounds
I get many letters from people wondering about
their ideal weight. The letters are often
painful to read as so much seems to be riding on
attaining a specific weight. In setting a
magical number it is almost as if, in reaching
that number, we believe our entire world will
change. It seems that that number on the scale
represents not only an attainment of physical
perfection, nurtured by disproportionate social
pressure, but also something deeper. We believe
that with this magical number will be delivered
a panacea of popularity, a sense of worth,
self-knowledge, peace of mind and eternal
well-being. If I'm the right weight, then
everything will be okay; I'll be complete.
KRS
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I am a 37 year old mom with 2 children ages
9 and 12. After giving birth to my first child I
lost a significant amount of weight by seeing a
diet doctor and using the pills he gave me. Then
I became pregnant again and after having my son
I went back to the diet doctor, and again used
the medication he gave me. But this time it was
harder. The motivation was there, but my
metabolism was already used to consuming small
amounts of food and now I can't seem to stop
taking these pills. I just need to be able to
keep moving and get motivated to where I could
get up in the morning and tackle the day without
these pills. The pills don't speed me up
anymore--but a missed pill and I get a huge
headache and all I want to do is get back in bed
and SLEEP ALL DAY because THE ENERGY NEVER COMES
anymore. HELP.
Diet Pill Nightmare
I hope others read this letter and are motivated
to stop taking any similar pills and/or don't
start taking them in the first place. Your
letter is a perfect example why not to take
these pills and where it leads. Doctors still
prescribing "diet pills" are acting
irresponsibly in my opinion. If they don't know
how to work with people behaviorally, they
should have a list of referrals for these
desperate people.
KRS
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